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At this article we will discuss how a guy can ask a girl out on a date. We will discuss some ways or steps on how we can take the girl out, meet up with us and have some fun.
When guys see a girl they almost always go in for the number. Sometimes they don’t even know the name of the girl and they are already asking for the girls’ number. We somehow think that getting a girls’ mobile number is a secret technique that would definitely land us to having a date with a girl.
Make plans before even getting her number
If you make (semi) solid plans even before getting her number you suggest and maybe input into her mind that you will eventually go out in the future.
When making plans with her it is also highly probable that she would say yes. This is maybe because it is spontaneous, it is on the spot, plus added some adrenaline because a confident guy approached her, she may have a positive response towards your invitation.
Ask her when she can be free, or what her plans are during the week and on the weekend. Seek out the days that she may or can be free and choose that.
Suggest to her some cool activity that you may like to try out, or some restaurant or café that you may like to try out.
You don’t need to fake this stuff. This can be genuine invites. If you don’t have any plans then make you can make one up and or you can find ideas from the activities that she would be having.
Maybe she’s into yoga, ask her if the establishment where she goes to offers free trial and tell her that you haven’t had tried yoga and it’s cool if you’d accompany her.
Being creative is the key. Remember that women respond to words and that the more fluent and smooth you are with the way you talk your way into her life the more that she is more likely to welcome you to it.
I already have her number
There are also situations where a guy already has a girls’ number.
Our connotation is that girls are hard to ask out. Truth is they are easy to ask out, and also it may be easy for them not to show up.
Make sure that you aren’t just asking a girl out on a date because “your taking chances” or “you want to impress her” so that she would like you. Remember that those are not the purpose of dates.
A date’s role is to just present yourself as a normal person, get to know each other, and if you like each other escalate the situation to something sexual and steamy.
Unto the sub topic… Creativity is still the key here. Ask her the times where she can be free and suggest to her activities in which you guys could to.
Sometimes I don’t have any activity so I just ask girls to just “hang out” or maybe “meet up”. It’s a shallow reason but if you’re an attractive guy or maybe you made them intrigue during your first meet, then she is more likely to accept your invitation.
If you’ve actually read what we’ve discussed above then you know that a NO is not an option. You invite the girl out on the times where she can be free so that she may not have any option to say no… because she is free that time.
If she’s that busy be persistent and also patient, but sometimes you also need to see the fine line between her being busy and her making excuses to not go out with you. If you think that you fall to the latter then throw in some value/attraction inducing gambits.
At our last post, How do I get a girls number? We’ve partially discussed about not even getting a girls number but instantaneously have a date with her right then and there.
Instant dates require two things; your availability, and her availability. If you guys have both the time and the luxury to spend it then you can have an instant date. She may have an activity to do but you may free to join or you may have an activity do to but you tell her that she is free to join and that you would be lucky if she joins you.
Maybe you’ve seen and approached a girl at the mall while you were shopping. You found out that she’s also shopping also… by herself. You tell her that it would be a fun idea if just go shop together because in a way, you guys both love to shop.
You then go have coffee afterwards then you maybe have gone through the movies, have a late night dinner, had a little walk by the park, kissing happens and good thing is that her place is near so you go there and magic ensues.
How to ask a girl out on a date? There are two of options with dating. You could ask her number and invite her out which is the most common way of doing it or don’t go for the number and have a date right then and there, ask her number afterwards so that you can meet up with her again.
It is your choice on how you do it. You now know the options it’s up to you to put it to good use.
Aside from approaching a girl, one of the things guys consider to be troublesome is getting her number. Let’s say that you are already talking with the girl. She seems like she’s enjoying the conversation, but when the time has come for you guys to separate ways you seem to not have the guts to ask just a simple question of “What’s your number?”
You just stand there while she leaves and contemplate that you will no longer meet her again. You can always do better. At this post we will discuss some simple ways on how to get a girls number.
Mistakes when getting a girls number
Guys ask girl’s number too early. Stop!
The most common mistake guys make when getting girls’ number is that they don’t have any reason to get It and that the girls don’t have any reason to give it to them either. The girl doesn’t even know you. You have not even given the girl a chance to be attracted to you. She doesn’t know if you’re safe enough to be with.
Make sure she is attracted or she finds you intriguing and that you peek her interest. You can observe this through her words and actions. You can maybe tell that you intrigue her if she maybe asks you a lot of questions, you made her laugh at least three times (not a rule, just a baseline), she touches you, she wants to be close (physically) to you etc.
Girls give me their numbers
Now there are also other instances where the girl freely gives out her number. Some of the reasons is that maybe she is attracted to you physically and that she is also a risk taker. Another reason is that she may just want to use you and make you her ass kisser, or be her boy toy. Another reason is that she just wants you to go away. She makes an illusion that she is somehow attracted to you so she gives her number but when you text or call her she doesn’t answer.
Also, some girls just want to talk with someone with no intention of being in a relationship with you ever either romantically or physically. If you also just want to talk with someone then this could be ok, but if you’re looking forward for a relationship higher than this then you need to up your game.
The lesson is, know the reason on why the girl gives freely and swiftly her number to you. Is she attracted, or does she just want you to go away?
How to get phone numbers
Getting a girls number is extremely easy. We’ve discussed earlier that you need a reason for you to get her number, we’ve also delved that she also needs a reason for her to give it to you.
- Invite her out first- Somewhere in the conversation you guys discovered that you have something in common. Tell her that there’s this [event name] or [cool place] that you’d like to check out and that she’d not want to miss that out. After that get her number.
- Hang out – This reason is shady. A girl would agree to a hangout because it’s just a “hang out” and that’s what friends do. Also, girls would sometimes agree with this because of courtesy and they don’t want to blow you out. Make sure she likes to really hang out and wants to be with you and spend some time with you.
- Constraint – Constraints can be good when asking a number. A constraint is something/someone that may break you off from talking to her. Maybe you’re friends are already there and she have to go or vice versa, it’s a natural reason to get her number so that you guys could continue the conversation again.
Phrases to say
You’re maybe still asking… “but how would I ask about her number”? Here are some ways
- Nice, what’s your number?
- What’s your number?
- Hey! Let me get your number?
- Wait! My friends are about to go. What’s your number?
- Have you been to [place/event]? No way! Ok let’s go there… this saturday? Ok! What’s your number?
- [Brings out pen and paper] Write down your number. :) (Girls get a slight laugh when I do this. Sometimes they comment that “I’m ready” or that it’s “old school” and it’s a good thing)
You don’t need to complicate things. Just ask for it. If you’ve created enough attraction or the girl’s already attracted to you, giving out her number is not a bother to her.
Don’t be the creep
Some guys don’t have the guts to ask for a girls number so they ask their “mutual friend” for it.
She already knows you like her, and unless she likes you too she won’t give a crap. You showed her that you’re not man enough to just even talk to her and even get her number so what’s the reason to give you attention and time? She’ll just go for that player guy that she kissed minutes after they met.
But sometimes though, the girl could also be attracted to you. That’s good news. Sometimes you feel, sometimes your friends tell you. Either way text her and invite her out sometime. Remember to make her laugh.
Stop Getting Phone numbers
But let me tell you something. Do you know that you may opt to not get a girls number, but instead invite her out immediately into a date or even seduce her to get into sex right then and there?
This is true, and this is the reason why we have one night stands and quickies between strangers.
We would discuss how to do this kind of magic on upcoming articles so stay tuned. Right now click like, or maybe tweet to show support.
The next time that you’re talking to a girl, and you want to meet her again next time (and she does to) get her number! Ask for it casually, you can be sure that it would turn out to be fine.
Get the number!